4 Types of Narcissism

THE CRAZY THING IS WE ALL HAVE THESE TRAITS LIKE WE SHOW SOME OF THESE TRAITS ALOT

narcissist very dangerous,,,,,

I will never enable any narcissistic people in my life. I've never been with a true blue narcissist until this last gf. And I will never put up with any shit like I did with her. We must all be strong. It's a them problem. We don't deserve to be treated like this.

This is so confusing bc I know someone who is actually both of these in 1 😮

Red flags

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If 1 in 4 people have antisocial personality disorder (sociopathy), and narcissistic personality disorder is a component of ASPD, how can u say that only 10-15% of people are narcissists?

Can narcissists be a combination of two or more?

The least damage to yourself, your abuser, or your relationship?

For All Of The Above, the answer is to full-stop ghost them. If you feel better leaving a note, fine; but rest assured, giving any more effort than full-stop ghosting them will only lead to another moment, or several moments, from which they will attempt to manipulate you - or worse.

Do not tell your abuser you're breaking up with them.

Make a plan that addresses ALL “possible fallout scenarios.” Can they reach you at your home? Have you protected yourself? Can they reach you at your job? Have you informed your job that you do not want to see them? Have you contacted your friends and family and told them that you do not want them to be in contact with that person? Have you contacted your local authorities and informed them or inquired the about possible restraining orders?

All of these questions must be answered before you make your move. Treating this in ANY WAY similar to a “normal" breakup is foolish and dangerous. From a normal standpoint these things are over dramatic and extreme, but in the realm of personality disordered abusers, they are smart and true acts of self love.

I made the horrible mistake of trying to break up in a normal fashion with my abuser. Although, she was breaking up with me, I still went through the motions and facilitated what I thought was a normal break up. It was a grave mistake. What actually happened was that I further facilitated and enabled another cycle of abuse during the break up period. I simply allowed myself to be abused more by attempting to end something with someone I loved with compassion.

Another very important reason to ghost them is the very dark possibility that their narcissistic injury suffered will be avenged at your expense. This was my experience. I have written about it several times in this forum. To put it short, my abuser ended up trying to take my life. So, I know most circumstances don't result to those extremes, but I hope all victims heed my words as the truth that those circumstances certainly can arise, and do.

There are many resentments I can hold onto for the way I acted in the relationship. This is a big one for me.

Looking back, I so wished I met Spyrohacker002@gmaildotcom and would've read the same advice from this answer from another survivor then.

They deserve nothing. You deserve to not give another moment of your life to an abuser, or a fake relationship.

GHOST THEM.

I'm kind of a grandiose narcissist, an dating a covert. These videos have made me realize a lot of things

I think she's falsely and unintentionaly mixing ambition with personal romance. I think narcissism term apply mostly or even entirely to personal relationships. The other is ambition - look at Copernicus or Beethoven, they were rather ambitious than narcisssist.

as a regular narcissist, I love communal narcissists, they will do things for you for the sake of their "image" lol

I also feel like psychopathy would be evolutionarily selected for in hunter gatherer times. Good for someone who’s going out hunting, bad if you have to be a carer or community member—hunters get a pass in this case b/c of value to the group.

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So, wich type is Trump?

Can we finally start calling narcissism "manipulative, 'I've never grow up so I still have the emotions of a child'" syndrom? or, "Because I think that no one can see through my lies (i.e. I think they're all idiots and deserve to lied to. becuase I'm just a scared child and this it the only way Im able to deal with myself)
Option 2. I''ll gaslight those closest constantly and ruin them in everyone else's eyes till they have no one to turn to besides my abuse"
Maybe. Manipulative or Spoilt Peter Pan Syndrome - because narcissism makes them sound more powerful then they actually are

Judas Priest songs for car commercials?
I weep for humanity

she's a cool lady but I really dont agree with anything she's saying.

It's not funny to me you should try to live with one damn it I live with one 40!years!!!!!🤔

It's not that we don't value openness as men, it's that women use your openness against you first chance they get when you make an honest mistake

Binge watching this lady as I do my house chores is bliss

Community and grandiose narcissism... i immediately thought meghan markle

Great knowledgeable lady

Narcissism is the "John Lindgren syndrome".

Is this baba blast???!!!

Oh, do shut up about L.A. Seriously? Don't you feel smugly superior and above it all. Hmm.

Main issue with all this is it is presented as on-off/black-white where it is really a continuum and we are all somewhere on that line.

So we can conclude that most politicians are communal narcissists? Asking for a friend😜😜

I don't want my onion peeled. Sometimes deep therapy hurts . I may be dark deep down, but these can be very dangerous. Picking on me hurts, also. Nobody can help anyone like me but nature and rest. I'm in distress and very confused. I really requested space. I'm finding none, now. I'm probably covert, if anything but I'm experiencing rape psychosis. I am fine with making sandwiches, at worst. Pushed like this hurts.

“ I made a new cookie for Christmas for Narcissism. They’re called “ All About Me’s.” NSB

Oh jeez. My man only started the behavior when his drinking got out of hand. Expresses some of all types except acquired.

When she said men are more Narcissistic i turn it off. Women literally do more of what she's talking about 😂

In the beginning, narcissists are in their best form because they just want to gain your trust. So, in the initial stage you can only notice they are like too good to be true and available all the time. One of the sign being a narc that they exactly share the same interest as like you.. they will also give you a nick name to create the feeling of love bond and they basically mirror you just to become the person you want to be with. They have a common set of love words to trap like soul mates, best friends, love you , miss you, sorry (fake) and phrases like they never felt like this before, twin flame connections etc.

Slowly, with time they will show red flags, like they will act possessive about you and eventually expect you to msg back immediately after they send you a message or have to be available all the time even if you are in your work place. And they will ask you let them know once you are back from your office or any other place.
Sometime you will get the feeling of being caged as because you have to give all the info like whom you are talking to, why am I talking so long, why am I going out for office lunch with-other colleagues. So, they will create little fights before any occasion so that you couldn’t fully enjoy.
But on the contrary they will also love bomb you so much that you will be emotionally so high that you will ignore the red flags, because no body could ever make you feel like this. Actually they literally highjack your mind so that you can’t focus on any other thing apart from them. So, you have to be careful with their mind control games.

Another sign is they lack clarity while conversing and you will feel confused. This is a big red flag.
Another red flag is they will create a big fuss about very small thing to make you mentally tired and slowly they will try to erase your boundaries like if you are punctual they will always try to be late (of course not in 2 or 3 month but afterwards)and many more.

But whenever you are in the verge of zero tolerance, they will immediately do something to make you happy like fake apology or love making or offering you with gifts so that you learn to restart. So, you will eventually notice they are living in denial and avoid accountability of action by creating chaos, confusion displaying victimhood and to cope up with them you are compromising your own self.

Eventually, they will slowly isolate you from your near and dear ones and force you to walk on egg shells. So, recognise the red flags and disengage yourself to run.
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Being betrayed by my husband changed me emotionally significantly. I already had trust issues from childhood, so being betrayed by the only person on earth I thought I could truly trust without fear really devastated me. My own failings as I tried to regain some perspective from all that was done and said made things so much worse.



I had always been so self-disciplined and logical. Suddenly, I was a ranting lunatic bent on destruction. Embarrassing. I felt like I couldn’t even trust myself anymore either. I’ve always been hard to get to know. Before all of this, I would put effort into being more social and open with people I called friends. Now, I have a numbness that keeps most people out of my heart completely.



I’m harder to hurt, even accidentally. Some people weren’t close enough to notice the change, but some have, and it strains the bonds there. I find I’ve lost something childlike when it comes to love and being loved. I used to believe in love at first sight, soul mates, and unconditional love. I just don’t anymore. Love seems too risky now, and the payoff isn’t worth it for me.



I’m not bitter or skeptical, but I am guarded against men in general these days. I am happy in a general way, but prefer that to any kind of overwhelming emotion, good or bad. I bristle at the slightest hint of being controlled, and find myself examining the reality of my relationships with a harsh eye, always worried that I’m deceiving myself again.



I wouldn’t say that I’m broken, per se. Things happen in our lives that change how we are. From that point on, you are a little different until the next life-changing thing happens, and you change a little more. This betrayal, for me, was just one of those events that made me slightly different.



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Communal narcissists sounds like politicians, I just saying.

The min she described Communal Narc …. You can see the lightbulb go off in his head

Once you understand the four types, certain past interactions suddenly make sense. Did any pattern feel familiar to you?

I know a person, who has traits of all 4 types. Grandiosity, liar/cheater, world never values me syndrome, I do charity how great I am syndrome. He is also Borderline BPD, 20 emotions in a day, fear of abandonment.

I don’t like how narrow her descriptions are of narcissism. I deal with narcissists quite a lot. Many of them don’t fall into these categories based on her descriptions. I get the feeling she came up with all of these on her own, but I see that it feels that way because she lacks real world descriptions outside of wealth and…L.A.?

What’s it called when someone tries to manipulate you by pretending to be on ur frequency ? A demon?