How to create a life in a new city | making friends, dating, hobbies, etc.

why she lowkey look like cebrina

Thanks, love your music btw!

i’m going to bordeaux for a program in a couple days and have been really stressing about being lonely. this gave me a lot of confidence and helped remind me that it really is just as simple as going up to someone and saying hi :) thank you, i hope your move went well!

I applied most of these tips, and some of my own, and now I have a boyfriend, a lot of friends, and an overwhelming amount of activities and invitations. You are so kind, and you are also changing lives with this video.
Congrats

Hi i have no love interest.

Respectfully, I think some of this perspective is influenced by what people often call “pretty privilege.” That is not to diminish your point you absolutely do not need to be conventionally attractive to build friendships, maintain a social life, or date successfully. However, it would be disingenuous to pretend those things do not come more naturally to people who are perceived as highly attractive.

And before anyone dismisses this as “incel bait,” that is not the point I am making at all. I am an outgoing person with a healthy social life and solid friendships, but building that life took significant effort after moving to a major city in my early thirties.

Much of what she says is true. At the end of the day, the biggest factor is consistent exposure and effort. You cannot stay isolated in your apartment and expect meaningful relationships to appear on their own. You have to put yourself in situations where connection is possible.

That said, for some people, the process requires substantially more intentional effort than others. Speaking from personal experience as a man who is not conventionally attractive, but who is confident in himself and established professionally, making friends was still difficult. It required pushing well beyond my introverted tendencies and repeatedly putting myself in uncomfortable social situations until those connections eventually formed.

Hey ,
Just wanted to ask if you already have someone handling video edits.
If not, happy to chat and see if it makes sense to work together.

You are so positive

I had two girls go up to me in 2 days while I was in LA. I must have been talkative or something cuz that was crazy. I'm not like that at home.

This happened to me in when I had to move to upstate NY I was definitely in limbo. But because I know I hate it and I def I’m still in limbo. I’m moving to north NJ soon and I’ll make it fully home

good list!👍🏼

Love the video! Moving to Austin next month.. I can’t wait! 😊

Hello, I have no friend

what about your cat? how did they handle moving? i also have a cat and it kinda stops me from travelling too much and moving to a different city