How To Get Any Man That You Want (prepare to be called out)

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I don't really understand where is "liking " goes, because personally mean a lot

Brown eyes, no date.

Ladies don't call or text men 1st ever until your there girlfriend if they don't keep reaching out believe me they talking to someone else's so just keep ot moving!

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sooo love that i came across this vid, im a guy and yes this is true (works for guys also) but i would like to WARN anyone that this is not going to get you the warm/comforting relationship you’re after. i’ll use my life as an example.

when i was younger i had a lot of social anxiety and still do. i’m somebody very aware of my flaws/insecurities and do my best to work through them. working through my social anxiety i developed charisma, empathy, knowing what to say to people and knowing how to make them feel liked. so now it’s very easy to make girls feel obsessed with me. because when you make someone feel liked, give them compliments etc and make them feel good people don’t like use that to build confidence up in themselves, they instead get addicted to me….which i actually hate. because that in my mind is a form of control.

last girl i dated did in fact develop limerence with me and it was horrible. because in her mind i was the most perfect person on the planet, she idolized me etc so i had to either keep up appearances or tell her about my flaws and shatter her world. and i want a relationship where i can be myself, so i tried the latter and boom. i tried to tell her that i don’t want her obsessed with me. i liked her (despite knowing her insecurities which she never told me). so it felt like i was choosing her but she was choosing a made up fictional version of me in her head. and she was also trying to be “perfect” rather than admitting the insecurities she has and giving me a chance to be there for her.

my point is i wish you had spoken to her and gotten her to realize these things, i really liked her 😭 but also that i don’t think chasing/being chased is healthy for either parties.

my opinion on healthy relationships is this, two people who can admit to their own flaws/insecurities, sit by the beach and just talk about how life has been tough for both of them and how they are both trying to be sweeter/kinder people despite it and look for companionship in a lonely anxiety inducing world. the way we used to when we were kids. we just existed with each other. we weren’t chasing/being chased. i think somewhere along the line during our adolescence we develop this fanatic belief that we need obsession/attention etc, when all we want is to truly be ourselves yet no one is really learning how to be open and honest about our feelings for ourselves and each other. it’s either own/be owned and we’re all forgetting that true relationships/love develops without ownership. just my two cents as a guy, i hate how easy it is to get people obsessed with me and how difficult it is to be my honest self with people or get them to be their honest self with me, because i would accept them as they are the same way i accept myself.

Guy here.

#1 Don't be overweight
#2 Don't sabotage your hormones
#3 That stuff in the video☝️
#4 Be symmetrical (like the girl in the video) 🤷‍♂️😐

Please use your powers for good 🙏. Keep yourself for one guy, prove him out and then lock him in on his way up. Don't sell your soul to some corporation or other set of consumers that won't stick around when you age out. You'll have lots of time for contributing to the tax-base afterwards.

I am a man myself and let me be clear, if a man doesnt has some level of interest for you when he first sees you then no matter how much you do for him or try to use manipulation, he simply wont like you in the romantic/sexual way. Men are very visual creatures and your physical beauty comes first, charm and charisma adds to the beuaty.

I am a man and the advice dont chase them is in the how to get girls😂

Love your hair in this video

You are so intelligent and beautiful I want to be like you ❤

Part 2 pls 2026 version 😂

How do I get my gym crush to approach me? 🫶🏼

I’m watching this for fun cuz I’m in a healthy relationship but the first one is quite honestly the most tea. Fact is, being self actualized, not lost in limerence or desperate for external validation will always make you more attractive. I used to put so much effort into looking perfect and being the perfect woman. It wasn’t until I genuinely let go of caring excessively about men that I suddenly got more dates. 😂 Truly just work on yourself but be open to meeting people of all kinds.

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Good girl right there!

You could not pay me enough money to date a woman like this lol

"do nothing. you're a woman." i don't usually watch these from the female perspective on how to get a partner but lol this sums it up. make him prove himself.

This may sound silly, but if we have to act 'distant' and 'nonchalant' to get men, then won't they expect you to stay that way? Im a hyper, all in person, wanna get lovely dovely and shit. (while still focusing on myself too)

Just be easy that is how you get most men to chase you but if you want a quality man than you need to be quality yourself.

As an older man tahts gone through quite a few relationships: Just no, also this is some really toxic advice
Getting ignored and playing games is nothing any good man wants to have anything to do with.

god this is sad

I feel so guilty watching this

I do think more women need to hear this... YOU'RE NOT MEANT TO CHASE!! Take it or leave it, it's the reality. You're always the prize, act like one! Nobody's ever been able to keep a man who doesn't wanna stay.

Yes i needed this

All of this is bullshit.😂 if you stop caring, the guy will also stop caring. Why would anyone care for your if you don’t care about them ?? Also, since hen do we take advice from strippers ? I mean..,

Newsflash, this only works if you are a Stacy, and with the type of men you don't want.
Desirable men get discounts from women.

Why would anyone want advice from a stripper?

Why do you stand like this?

Brilliant! She is right! 😅

This comment section is like a reverse manosphere. Holy crap get me out of here.

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Yall are so stupid…if he doesn’t like you, it means you’re ugly, plain and simple. These videos are only supposed to make women cope with the harsh reality, and try to find a way to make someone that obviously doesn’t want you change his surface behavior while the substance stays the same, cause i promise you don’t have an idea how much a man acts properly towards a woman he truly likes and she doesn’t have to do any of that stuff to have his attention cause it comes from his real feelings towards her, not from some random manipulation technique you have learned on YouTube 😢

Great video 🙏🏻 strippers have so much wisdom, y’all understand the game

absolutely garbage advice. The cancer this post gave me was so powerful it went backwards through time and killed me before I was born.

The girlies thank you for your TED TALK 💕

Honestly? This is the first vdo of yours and literally? I'm subscribing stay on this frequency babe 🫀🎀

Yass baby girl 🎉🎉🎉 💅

ALL of the advice here needs to be told to men who are not in the top 20 percent. Stop giving women power over you with limerence as a result of low self esteem
Prioritize yourself men, women respect you more when you set boundaries and are willing to walk away
Set your value high men, treat yourself as you want others to treat you
Never chase a woman, prioritize your own self, life and individuality.

why is there always a belief that men have to chase women if they are meant to be together.. seriously?

As a man who has seen male dating coach videos I just wanted to point this out because it’s really funny to me that both sides are literally saying the exact same thing: “stop giving a damn”. I’m not even necessarily saying not to do this but you’re mistaken if you think you’re the only ones hearing this kind of message… guess we really are equals after all… (sips coffee*)…

P.S. I’m not singling out women in particular, it’s just funny to me how we really are just mirrors of each and so few people seem to realise it and it’s honestly kinda funny but also depressing.

Both dont chase
noone marries and we have no kids
WHAT happened?

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yea good luck with all this lmao

How to get any (shitty) man.

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Yep!!!

Speaking as a guy (who has no idea why the algorithm sent me here, but I like hearing different perspectives about different things so I'm sticking around), I feel like this is advice is 50% of the way there. At least looking at it from a man's perspective.

Don't chase him. YES. Absolutely. Respect yourself and your own time, interests, and plans. Don't change who you are to try and appease anyone. A guy, especially one you only started talking to recently, should never take priority over your friends or your own interests.

Make him chase you. NO. This gets dangerously close to playing games and most guys just won't do that. Playing 'hard to get' doesn't work because if you act like you're not interested in us, we'll just assume you're not interested in us and move on. Besides, do you really want to date the kind of guy who continues to pursue you when you act like you're not interested in him? I don't think refusing to take "no" for an answer is a trait anyone should want in a partner. So absolutely if you already have plans don't break them just because the guy you like asked you to do something with him, but offer an alternative if you actually want to spend time with him ("I already have plans that day, how about we do something on Sunday instead?"). If you just say no the message he's going to get is "I'm not interested in you" and he's going to move on (unless he lacks self-respect or is unwilling to respect your boundaries, both of which are problematic). Just like women should respect themselves and not chase men who aren't interested in them, men shouldn't either. There shouldn't really be any chasing involved in dating from either end.

For both men and women there's a healthy middle where we need to meet, expressing that we are interested and want to spend time with someone without making them the center of our lives.

Well said! Thank you for reminding us. It's not easy to do, but it's what matters.