How to Signal that You’re an Attractive Guy - Blaine Anderson
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Blaine Anderson is a dating coach, a speaker and a YouTuber.
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Here's the timestamps:
00:00 Can Women Give Men Dating Advice?
01:42 Do Women Want to Make the First Move?
07:37 How Common is Male Approach Anxiety?
14:05 Opening Lines That Actually Work
21:19 How Can Men Stand Out?
24:19 Best Online Dating Platforms
27:10 Designing the Perfect Profile
39:16 How to Text More Effectively
44:10 Best Practices for First Dates
53:07 Biggest Red Flags on Dates
1:01:00 Good Places to Approach Women At
1:13:21 Is Fear of Creepiness Holding Men Back?
1:20:08 Tips for Being More Charismatic
1:25:40 Are Men Struggling With Loneliness?
1:31:51 How Can Hopeless Guys Turn it Around?
1:42:12 Do Smart Guys Struggle With Dating?
1:49:29 Traits That Women Prioritise
1:55:47 Where to Find Blaine
Expect to learn how women want to be approached, how to overcome approach anxiety, the most important factors for designing the perfect online dating profile, the best strategies to text women well, what are the biggest red flags to watch out for on a first date, whether it's okay to approach women in the gym, the traits women actually care about in men and much more...
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All of her advice works for good looking guys and not average guys.
00:00 Can Women Give Men Dating Advice?
01:42 Do Women Want to Make the First Move?
7:05-7:15 No, cold approaching most definitely has not been what's happened for all of human history and you should know that. Cold approaching is less than 100 years old and is fizzling out as quickly as it started. Too many reasons why I'm not gonna sit here and listen to her.
07:37 How Common is Male Approach Anxiety?
14:05 Opening Lines That Actually Work
Why does she sound like she's reading off a script?
21:19 How Can Men Stand Out?
24:19 Best Online Dating Platforms
Thank you for this! Very helpful
27:10 Designing the Perfect Profile
39:16 How to Text More Effectively
I want to date Blaine.
44:10 Best Practices for First Dates
53:07 Biggest Red Flags on Dates
She does not speak on behalf of all women. I do not see men or talking to men how she does.
I have always approached men that I have been attracted too.
This is the example of a female who thinks everyone behaves how she behaves.
1:01:00 Good Places to Approach Women At
1:13:21 Is Fear of Creepiness Holding Men Back?
This is a very subjective and feminist based approach, sorry, better people would disagree and debunk most of what was said, and especially the reasons why…
1:20:08 Tips for Being More Charismatic
1:25:40 Are Men Struggling With Loneliness?
Not worth the risk.
1:31:51 How Can Hopeless Guys Turn it Around?
1:42:12 Do Smart Guys Struggle With Dating?
Poor advice to be perfectly honest.
1:49:29 Traits That Women Prioritise
1:55:47 Where to Find Blaine
07:00 - zero knowledge on mating dynamics on the human species, and minus 10 empathy for men "oh, men saying the system is rigged" "men just have to approach more, it can be hard, you may face rejection, but.... suck it up" (before industrial revolution almos all mating dynamics were full or semi arranged, both families knew eachother, you met at church... built a relationship... cold approach appeared after the female sexual liberation. )
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All women want is stability which means money…at whatever level they’re content at.Stay in your lane and choose whichever one your capable of managing the rest of your life. You want the baddie.. you gotta do baddie things. Easy as that
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I couldn't care less if a woman is interested I'm in me or not.
Either she is or she isn't.
There are billions out there.
Why waste time on someone who doesn't find you attractive unless you jump through all the right hoops?
Never had problems with finding women who are as attracted to me as I am towards them.
I also skipped the whole "date" thing. Get to the point or go home.
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IDE hire her as my coach if she can get me 3 women to date and come up with lies and excuses so they don’t know about one another!
Why?
I’ve dated a lot of Fourier women! And I believe in =
Maybe that would be a great add on to to a dating sight
AI coaches that has setting that work women!
If any of that bothers anyone just words around! Make it fit in your own head!
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1:05:13 The struggle is endless. Rest in peace, patriarchy 🫡
@tjheartonI’m not necessarily saying women have it easier in dating. I’m saying men would much rather have women’s problems in that category.
@tjheartonLike everyone else, maybe 5 minutes in and you just know this isn’t going to be good.
Now 51 minutes in and sure, maybe 1-2 things I was able to take away from this, but otherwise it feels so fake from her and entitled.
Feels like she paid him to be here.
You are forgetting most anti cat calling laws in most of western societies. Making it impossible to approach women on the streets at random. France Belgium etc..
@d.7479An "expert" talking about a whole lot of nothing
@TheAnon11This is really Good👌🏽, but i do have a Problem with the Marketing Part. I don‘t want to market myself…it Feels Off. I don‘t know if anyone can relate to this feeling but it kinda feels unnatural and acting.
@Bob-x9v8fBunch of loser insecure dudes in these comments
@danger-daaaaaanId rather approach a wild lion or tiger than deal with a modern millennial/gen Z woman.
@liamdaigle5839What line did Chris use on her after the interview??
@buddahb9719This girl is an idiot. Constantly contradicting herself
@TheDreamOfATreeThis was the first podcast in my life that I actually felt relieved when the commercials came on.
@jeandivine3got curesd to be a dog, ma guy become a dawg instead. 😆
@DABOSSEMPRAHI just think here advice is terrible I have 2 GFs both 8-10 ( this info is bad ) girls will approach you when your attractive enough go out meet people and see what kind of girls flirt with you
@fearless8356Money.
That’s it. That’s the game. You’re welcome.
You all keep saying that the bar is so low and its so delusional. The bar has never been higher. You need professional pictures just to get a date? The economic situation is worse than its been in generations and, "You should have some nicer clothes for dates." What do you think people are dropping out of dating entirely, because its so easy? Maybe for 2 people in the top 1% of the top 1% of datability, who act like Raya is just another option.....but regular people have never had it harder. I still like you content, I am not trying to be adversarial, and the advice on here is good, but the attitude is ignorant of most people's reality
@solmarcurtiss1824“How do I signal I’m attractive, when I’m unattractive?”🤔
If I had a nickel for every piece of advice on how to be attractive, I’d be attractive… because I’d have a ton of nickels…
Although, technically I’d probably need at least 100 tons of nickels…
Yeahhh, just being unattractive works out fine; way too much advice and nickels required to get a woman these days…..
14:00 this laugh 😅
@Tiodior1When I listen to Dr. Robert Glover speaking about dating women I feel like I am able to get almost anyone I would like to.
After listening to her I'm unsure if even want to participate.
Naa didn't really wanted to comment but around 22:30 some crazy things have been said. So you have to market your self appropriately and then the example is instead says boring stuff like "I am an accountant and work 9 to 5"
You like make it more appealing "I am an accountant at this firm who helps dogs"... So how many people on this planet actually work something interesting and cutsie like that 😂😂😂 Just straight up talk bullshit about what you do and who you are and make it sound believable and like you are doing the nicest thing in the wrold. That is some insane shit. I get what you are explaining but the examples are sooo ass.
Btw important thing is the eye contact from the woman... until you experience girl staring at you and smiling like a couple of times and then you say something like Hi, do we know each other? as a opener and she is like, no, i was looking that you are leaving your sit (was just working on things in the library) and so she was just craving my workspace like for 1 hour even though i was there like already 4 hours long.
I thing the only thing that is going to help at this point, is just not giving up and bare with this bullshit.
I had virtually no matches on Tinder until I paid a photographer $200 to take pictures. After that, I averaged about 1 like or match per day, as an obese 53 year old man. Absolutely worth it.
@rickhall2000Why do her mannerism's signal extreme narcissism to me?
@jMelt-2000No 1 women want in a man is fame, then money. Look at Leonard Cohen.
@HasanAsecShe’s cheating on her husband…
@610kclafUgh
@marccharbonneau1967MEN are the HUNTERS PERIOD! Get you some GAME!
@CoachSydney-j6y11:00 - 'The transactional autist that you were previously' Thank you Chris, I feel seen
@tapb4benEasy for her to say there's no risk.
@1984MusicforeverOmg I thought I was listening to Ai generated video when she started talking.
@socalmotionYTMost scripted sounding guest of all time. Episode plays out like a commercial.
@davidboyce2073She says men who point out how easy life is for women don't have empathy, we do, but we also have eyeballs
@unkownnameless2699