Lauren Spencer Smith - Bigger Person (Lyrics)
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i have to be the bigger person for my mother seems many people are struggling with childish parents
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Most of us in the comments seem to be that “Bigger Person” but comment if there is someone in your life who seems the bigger person. Remember, this song has a second person in it.
Lyrics:
[Intro]
Why do I have to be the bigger person when I'm shorter than you?
(Ooh-ooh-ooh)
(Ooh-ooh-ooh)
2026 anyone
[Verse 1]
When you'd yell I would stay silent
😫😫😫😭😭😭
You never noticed I was quiet
I was taught that speaking up was talking back
Same to my friends😮💨😮💨
Always first to say, "I'm sorry"
'Cause I wanted you to like me
I love you 😫😭😭
And I thought that's what it took to make it last
[Pre-Chorus]
Can’t say I’m sorry “bebeeeee” but I can say that now I know what you meant by making me listening to this song. Băiatul mereu o să iubească fata.
It's a lose-lose
That I don't choose
Hi
But you don't always choose the ones you love
[Chorus]
“Can we switch?” Gut punch! 20 plus year marriage failing here! Loving a narcissist is hard! And it breaks my heart so many feel this about their parents! Much love and many hugs!
I shouldn't have to be the bigger person
How come I have to break to keep us working?
It's hard being the bigger person when anything that happens to the other person gets blamed me because im an easy target and I can't fight back...
It's always up to me even though it shouldn't be
I'll take the blame the way you want me to
Im So happy that Im not the only one that relates to his song im happy were a community like a strong and supportive one❤️❤️❤️
'Cause that's what I'd do for you
[Post-Chorus]
I relate so much to this song from my family, alot has gone on this year and honestly trying to be the bigger person is just too much at this point
(Ooh-ooh-ooh)
(Ooh-ooh-ooh)
This song all way get my heart
[Verse 2]
I was half of this dynamic
Mindy Bloom
I was stable, you were manic
Without you or with you, comes with a cost
Very relatable i wish i could just explain it to my family but then i feel guilty
I got used to the excuses
And emotional abuses
Especially when you have to do it to maintain a good reputation for your religion
We kept moving the lines we'd never cross
[Pre-Chorus]
anyone here 2025-2026
It's a lose-lose
That I don't choose
Yeah can we do a Parody where it is the kids point of view talking to both parents
But you don't always choose the ones you love
[Chorus]
the first part is so true
I shouldn't have to be the bigger person
How come I have to break to keep us working?
this song relate to me with my dad 💔
It's always up to me even though it shouldn't be
I'll take the blame the way you want me to
When you try to be the “perfect child” and you keep silent like everything’s okay.
'Cause that's what I'd do for you
[Bridge]
This song is just like my life when I was 7
I always think it's over but it never really is
'Cause I can't get the closure when you're like this
This is so ralatable with my friend
Can we switch
[Breakdown]
So many limes I can relate to in this song sorry to anyone who can relate ❤
Maybe this time you'll be the bigger person
'Cause I'm gettin' tired of bearin' all your burden
damn didn’t cry but my heart felt like someone put a dagger right into it.
It should be up to you, but you won't admit the truth
Oh-oh
relatable
[Chorus]
I shouldn't have to be the bigger person
Definetly did not just sing this next to my dad
How come I have to break to keep us working?
It's always up to me even though it shouldn't be
So true 😢😢
I'll take the blame the way you want me to
'Cause that's what I'd do for you
❤️😭🫂
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this is one of my favorite songs ever.
More User Perspectives
This song hits hard. Going through a lot with a grand parent right now and my mom relates to this song more than I do but Im with her everyday and I can feel what she is feeling. It's extremely sad when someone can't grow up even though they are and have been an adult for the better part of 60+ years. I wish it wasn't like this but you can't change who you love when it's family. I hope this song helps people heal wounds that need to be healed because nobody deserves toxicity
@daisymaychristie8312the way i broke down in tears listening to this
@daisymaychristie8312love
@daisymaychristie8312So hard to be the bigger person 💔
@JoshuaLeatherdI have wonderful parents but sometimes this song just hits.
@mallorygomes4567This song isn’t about relationships with partners. It reminds me of me and my father’s relationship, I’m turning 15 in September. And he’s put me through a lot. And this songs just fits my situation.
@Isabella-elizaI have 80HD😢🎉😊❤
@ChestnutM.this song is so true for me rn😭 it’s fr kinda hard tbh
@brennah711"I got used to the excuses, and emotional abuses..." hit like a dagger to the heart....
@Helpmeeee1987😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Alu0404I love this song it is one of my favorite songs
@KatelynRushing-b1fThe bigger person is the one who doesnt lie, chest, steal or kill
@NataliaGarcíaPérez-q2s“I was stable you were manic, without you or with you comes with a cost.” I just sat and starting balling my eyes on. No one understands how hard that hits
@kiranmajid8499I was taught that was speaking up was taking back is so true I go through this and I'm 8
@bonnieallen-zd5sgOk do u spy on me and my dad or........
@sarawashburn2008That song is 🔥. Anyone knows the name of the song and the artist? So soothing?
@Hgs-z6hI just pushed one of my parents away yesterday. I can't stop thinking about it. I keep wondering if it was the right thing to do. I told them I wouldn't talk to them until they learned to grow up. I'm breaking into tears as I listen to this song. I don't fight or yell because I don't care about them but rather because I can't handle the mental pain and exhaustion. It hurts and it is tiring to constantly feel as though I never do the right thing. They seem to think that because they don't hurt me physically and that food is in my stomach that they're doing their "job as a parent". I am not their tool, I am not their reflection, I am not their social experiment. I am a human. Plain and simple. None of us deserve the mental agony. I can't imagine my life without my family, but if that's what it takes, so be it. I hope that they can grow and learn, but knowing them, they probably won't. I'm tired and I want it all to stop.
@xander-luluI love this song so much😘
@karlipew123