Men Should Pay For Everything?

I think this is an interesting video but it's a lot to unpack and a lot of different points opinions going on but its a video so there's no room for real rebuttal or to break down whats been said. While I can agree with some things said a lot of what I heard is very circumstantial. It certainly depends on the type of life a woman wants or is she even wanting marriage at all does it serve her properly based on whats considered "non toxic" in this video. I don't claim to know anything about Courtney but maybe when you come from a different walk of life you view things differently. I just can't see working my way to the top alone and giving a man nothing to earn. Whats the difference between strategically having a partner support your financial growth in a "partnership" and a business partner. He's working with you to make you income or he provides income because he respects yours, such a doozy to think about. Either way you slice it the whole concept is petty if a man wants you or loves you he'll pay all of it not cause you asked just because he loves you and if he doesn't love you why should he get your energy for free. He's choosing to seek your attention. Idk lets just erase more ways in which they cherish us ig make it harder for under privileged young girls..

REALITY= if she looks 10 of 10 or SEXY then YES … man or woman/lesbian pays for everything… if she looks less than 8 of 10 … meaning average and below ⬇️… NOPE 🙂‍↔️

Men should pay for everything because a man gets naming rights over children and Women especially after marriage! A man should never have the right to name a grown woman and 3 of her children without providing. His name is spread to 4 other people women and children... If she pays then their children need to go under her! If a woman gets her nails done then she should use her own money that's why she has it .. but a man should take care of dinner bills, most of the mortgage and make sure she can spend time raising the babies he put in her belly. Her money she got to her clothing or personal products. A man must be a provider. Many men I know by 25 they work and make good money especially in construction.

What if i also do all the cooking,dishes , driving , planning etc

My current girlfriend has expected me to pay for her every time we went out to dances or meals, I think that women who expect the man to pay for everything are selfish , that’s why I h think I have been used for 13 months, NYD is the day I find out if I stay in this relationship or back to being single.

I’ll write about my own experience. It is an absolute nightmare to date a woman who expects you to pay for everything without giving any reciprocity. Met a beautiful woman in Japan who expected me to pay for all our dates even months later. Towards the end of our relationship we barely slept together and she was never in the mood to show affection. Her birthday was a nightmare because I took her to a fancy restaurant, bought her gifts, and took her to a hotel in Kyoto for the weekend. That wasn’t enough because I forgot a birthday cake. She cried and said I wasn’t a real man and that’s the reason she wasn’t attracted to me. That was the final straw and I broke up with her that evening. A huge relief and I won my dignity back. Gentleman, always respect yourselves and find a woman who will treat you with the same respect as you do her.

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I work hard for my money and so should she. If she cannot afford to go somewhere, we can go somewhere else or stay in. But having the man be expected to pay for everything is a red flag. A relationship is a team effort, not one sided. We need more women who think the same way as you.

men have to deposit at least $ 10k / m GF salary! no romance without finance!

This is why I practice my Bslap on a daily.

In my opinion it’s completely sick discussion if I love someone it doesn’t matter how much money he or she makes. For example. If she makes 100 K a year and I make 50 K a year. Oh well, she can’t marry me because I only make half of the money? What about the person m, about the personality about the human being you are together with. This wouldn’t have been a discussion in the 70s or in the 80s. This is the new media and that young woman believe they deserve a billionaire, which is completely unrealistic. This attitude has nothing to do with respecting and loving each other.

I pay for 3-5 dates if I enjoy my date’s company, however, if I notice they don’t offer to pitch in or pay for 5th date before I reach for my wallet, that’s basically the end for me.

No matter how great conversations or physical attraction might be, this girl is mostly there for free dinners/ hangouts and won’t be adding much value to my life if we dated long term. Usually with these girls, sex is mediocre too

if you cant provide for yourself you cant provide for others if you broke chill out dont date coz all this things revovls around money this goes to both genders

I HAVE A GOOD QUESTION IM A 65 YEAR OLD WOMAN AND I HAVE A 28 YEAR OLD WHO WANTS ME $3500. FOR A 3 DAY MEET AND GREET WITH SOMEONE WHO IS FAMOUS AND HE WANTS ME TO PAY FOR THIS. I HAVEN'T WORKED IN 20 YEARS. EVERYDAY I AM ASKED FOR $$$ CONSTANTLY. I BELIEVE THAT THE FAMOUS PERSON WHO MADE THE INVITATION SHOULD PAY. THAT'S HOW LIFE WAS WHEN I WAS GROWING UP. PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS ONE 😢😢😢. I REALLY FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM AND HE WITH ME SUPPOSEDLY. HAVE A BLESSED DAY

It racks my brain that a woman who earns the same if not more than a man has the greedy entitlement to expect him to pay for everything in 2025

With today's economy, it's pretty unrealistic to expect a normal worker to pay for everything, sharing will make it easier.

I don’t pay for anything not rent or cars or gas

I went on two dates with a lady I knew for a while and paid for the first and second dates. She never offered to pay anything and didn’t even say thank you on the second date. After she ordered the most expensive drink I asked her if she would get me a mocha for the next round. The look of total disgust on her face! She provided virtually nothing in terms of enthusiasm, reciprocity, entertainment, planning and effort. Makes me want to steer clear of women generally.

So this channel is for masculine women who take on men roles of paying and providing while also doing domestic work at home and got feminine males who want women to pay and help them provide 😂😂😂🤡
Got it 👍

Sad part of this, is most woman won't see this and even less will take it to heart. I agree with the point of the video. In the first few dates, we'll 50/50 the bill until we see if we like each other. Then if it'll get serious, then I don't mind providing 70/30 kind of split.

I think that the man should pay for dinner. However, I don't expect him to "support" me. The reason why I like a man to pay for the food is because it's a matter of respect and gratitude during the beginning courtship phase of the relationship. I have never mooched off a man because I am financially independent and emotionally mature. When a man treats me well, I will treat him well. Even in the beginning of the courtship phase of the relationship, I don't order the most expensive thing on the menu or chose a restaurant out of his price range. If I am clueless about what he can afford, I insist that he chose the restaurant. As we get more into a relationship, I definitely will show my gratitude to him by cooking a meal for him and baking a cake and buying him something special when the time is appropriate. I just think that in the very beginning, a gentleman should always treat a lady to a nice meal and good conversation. It doesn't have to be expensive, it just has to be from the heart. When a man pays for dinner, I feel like he's really made me feel special and I am grateful for that.

AMEN! Thank you for this video… I will be sharing this with my gf.

Definitely agree with this

Is dépend where you are in the world the mentality is not the same every where . I don't understand this American mentality or it's the man who has to Pay everiting for a Women !!! I live in Quebec Canada and here it's half and half . One Day it's me who pays for the restaurant and the next time it's her. And if we always take my car she offers me to Pay for the gas from time to time !! Men and Women are like that here

Masculine Energy is just an euphemism for "you have a third leg? You pay for everything"

I think it really depends on what you really wanted in life, so if you knew yourself that youre the type of materialiastic woman and value love language of being materialistic then dont go date a broke man, but if you are what we call a strong independent woman then you can go 50/50 with ur partner , I am just not sure how far youll get say you already have kids and being in a relationship for so many years then it's still 50/50 , I dont know gurl,,, it doesn't work all the time I'm telling ya'll. Love isn't always enough, if that's what's all about

I'd be ok with a 70/30, but if I'm paying for everything, I expect something more than a relationship, like cooking and cleaning as well. I'm not saying I expect that, but if I'm paying for everything just for company / sex this is just prostitution with extra steps.

The man should pay . He is the provider. Thats a provider else

Men LITERALLY use women 😂😂💯 & Im Not Saying To Use Men But They Should Invest Into Their Partner .. Let’s Be Realistic About Life & The True Human Nature Of Men .. don’t be so naivety

Women could also propose if they wanted to. I feel like that’s very underrepresented

If you have to pay for everything, you might as well be single and date different women. That's not a partnership with one person taking care of someone like a child.

Only men commenting… cmon pick me!

Pickme. Agent of the patriarchy.

During my divorce, my soon-to-be ex-wife declared, "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine." Little did she know that my net worth would increase fourfold shortly after the divorce, while she ended up supporting her new husband. It turns out she was right after all: "What's hers is hers, and what's his is hers." Can't believe I let that wonderful woman slip away.

When I met my wife, our first date was coffee. Then a movie. We each paid our own way

For me, i don’t do 50/50!
But i also don’t mind to pay for things and bills in our household. He earns more he pays more, i work less but i do more in the household. When we go out we both pay but he pays more.
I do love that old school the man is the provider mindset.
And some folks love to do everything 50/50 what ever makes it work and makes u happy😁

85 of females expect men to pay for everything.

I would like add , of you dating someone that can’t maintain their own personal bills ( rent/ utilities car note) is the biggest red flag 🚩 that there priorities may not be aligned with yours and could be simply looking for help , after 3 or 4th she she should be making the attempt to offer to pay never let her pay. The attempt for me personally is good enough, but that’s your choice as a man.

Nicely said Courtney for President she’s 100% correct

I tried to reason my girlfriend now ex without any success. I'm glad your video validated what I felt really matters the most in a healthy relationship. I felt somehow gaslighted at some point, thinking I was going crazy for believing in core values rather than focusing on just money. Thanks so much!

Single men pay for everything. Why add an adult dependent to that?

god bless you

Thank goodness for this video!!! Thank you Courtney!

if women is jobless and not working or not making money then i will pay for everything.....trust me🤔
men always expect is women have not to be selfish like a gold digger.

Men should nothing. Women are free, independant, equal to men. Why should men pay for them ? This is not equality but slavery.

I'm happy to do things for her.... until she demands it.

The best girl I've dated literally INSISTED to pay for everything on dates. And I was like, why ? Just why ? And she replied " I know you're struggling and going through a tough time financially right now. I just want you to be able to relax and have a good time. I got you. "

It took me everything not to shed a tear in front of her. She was the best ❤