Was It Love…or Just Manipulation?👀

Exactly why I left with no words said. Never to look back. Sometimes when us as women disregard the red flags, we get stuck. 😢 I left with children. It was no way once I felt how I felt, it wasn’t saving feelings but saving my self. Good luck and never void the flags.

Praying 🙏 She is doing well now. Lesson learned. I personally would have started thinking like him, I would have went out of the country with my sister.

Ohhh the silly things we do in the name of love

Look at Curtis's wife the way she's looking at him. Be quiet curtis

She angers me.

Ehhh, this is Bird Brain Behavior on HER part. Ending this at 25min in.

she lacks maturity

Going out with your friends and drinking is NOT cheating just because men happen to be around. I'm sure they didn't have their private parts out. That's ridiculous.

21 mins in and she just telling a whole bunch of info with nothing in between. So it comes off as vague information giving. Cause why not explain the shift? He wanted to marry you and then all of a sudden basically hates ya. So it’s just like????? She not telling her part

We don't know if her husband cheated....As we know a man would never admit to anything...

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All the smacking in between! No, hunnay!!!!!

The military marriage rates are high due to deployments and of course infidelity. A small amount of military personnel get married for the benefits. I’m speaking through experience being in the military. Free medical and free dental 🤷🏿‍♂️ that’s not worth getting married for. The housing allowance ain’t even a lot.

She tells a good story but sadly I don’t hear her taking any accountability for anything in the marriage. No one person is 100% blame for everything in a marriage. I do believe he was majority blame but she makes it sound like it was all him.

22:00 I’d be pissed af if I was your sister!!! You should’ve took your sis on that trip!! No way I would’ve just lost all that money!!

I’m only 22 minutes in and 🥴 I just don’t want a man so bad that I’d be paying for my own wedding lmbo

Did anyone find out who the husband was asking for myself

So this is my opinion on this situation. It seems like he didn't like her. He didn't want to marry her. He didn't want her around him at all. It sounds like she's the type of woman that there is no telling no too okay? So she pushed for this wedding. She paid for this wedding. It seems like he just either married her. Because he didn't want to hurt her feelings or because he had his family and everybody believing that he loved this girl. And he was going to marry her. I don't know what thank you so much. It was, but it just seems like she was being very pushy. And sometimes, because I've had a friend like this. When you have someone that is determined to make something happen, even though you've expressed to them that this is not what you want to do. And they just consistently forcefully, put certain things on you. It starts to get on your nerves. And it makes you mad, and it irritates you. And it sounds like this is what she was doing in this relationship. Now, was he wrong for marrying her? And he didn't want to absolutely, he's a grown man. He should have said, I don't want to marry you in the discussion. Leave me alone he didn't do that that. These are the consequences of him. Not doing that, but it just seems like even the whole water incident like how is that intimidating him pouring water on his head? She's leaving things out, why would he pour water on his head and think that that is going through, scare her, that doesn't make any sense to me. If somebody else understood that can somebody let me know? But how was pouring water on his head himself? Trying to intimidate her now throwing the water bottle, you can say, that's violence but pouring water on his head no on himself. No, I don't understand that part. And the fact that she is trauma dumping on her sister in this matter, her sister was probably annoyed with her. It seems like she emotionally drainspeople and it causes a reaction of annoyance. Your annoying me every time I turn around, you're texting me, you're calling me about what's happening with this relationship. You knew that he didn't want to marry you. But yet you pushed for it, and now you are trauma, dumping on me because of this. Because of your choices, 23 are not. You knew this man didn't want to marry you. You knew that he was disrespectful rude and he didn't want to be around you like that. So if that's the case, why would you marry him? It just seems like she is someone who will emotionally drain you. And I think for him, that's what she was doing.I'm not saying that or taking up for him in any way, it just seems like that's the type of woman that she is

Beach U CRzy

WHY JUNE Y'ALL?

I think you should put a ring on your womans finger quickly lol ... even if you not getting married quickly but a lot of men is goingbto be attracted to her. Just my thoughts.

This is terrible. I hope she takes the time and listens to everything she has said. I know she put in a lot of work in this marriage but she also is condescending. She is very entitled so it makes her good deeds be overlooked. Like you decided to marry this man why would you carry on like Nicki Minaj if he feels shame? You laughed at him when he asked you about brunch. Granted it was a stupid question but again your response belittled him. You seemed to put him down and bring out his rage when he already was screwed up. Both of you all are a bit self centered like two Leos in a relationship. I pray you never force no man into marriage like this. It doesn't seem like he didnt want you, just wasnt ready to be your husband. Yall moved too fast. Other men would not have given you this much effort after not wanting marriage.

Oh yeah, and dude STINGY AS H-E- 🏒🏒 ladies I’d a man ain’t spending NO money on you, how is he a husband. But she married him anyway 🙄

I’m 21:54 into to this video and I’m already sick of her🫩🫩🙄 she’s delusional and controlling. She tried like most young girls becoming and young woman to make him live out her fantasy. I can tell she’s overbearing and controlling. Dude was young and wasn’t ready to settle down and all the signs & red flags were there and she like most women just want what they want. Well now your divorce. But let keep watching 😑

She drug herself through the mudddd

Don’t ever let a guy tell you more than once he doesn’t want too get married . … it’s probably the only time he was for real

So, you did him wrong… He did you wrong. Y’all were young and dumb (twenties), you married and divorced. Best wishes.

I can't listen to this person anymore. She's beyond dumb for going through all of this and spending all that money. They clearly didn't even like each other.

I’m sorry these are not red flags, these are ROAD BLOCKS! I would be lying if I said I understood but for at least the first year my family is taking notes, recordings, background cks & all off the 1st name & mother’s maiden name. Maybe because we’re a small family. If he said something I’m not feeling Ima have to use the bathroom. I mean I don’t want Jesus to be the only man I need but I’m damn sure not gonna waste or finance a lie for a title.

At 10:16 I am so not into this story 😅😢

I've had to restart this video four times because, respectfully, that lavender top has me questioning my sexual orientation. GDAMN.

Girl he wasn't a drinker or clubber when yall met... yall were stressing each other out. Probably brought it out of him.

I think he’s gay

He's trying yet he's talking to women, she's paying for everything, he tells her he doesn't want her. You sound absolutely ridiculous.

Dude you’re missing the whole point he was abusing her and putting her down.Why aren’t you talking about what he did.Just because she flirted with 1 man not men and she knows she did wrong.

SCREAMS AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS LOL HE'S A PSYCHOPATH!!!!

Why did she keep going when he kept saying he didn'tt want to get married? This makes no sense!

This woman would have chased this man to the end of the earth just because he said he wanted to marry her

Sorry, as much as I would love to continue this endless saga of rejection… I just can’t.. They don’t like each other & have nothing in common.. but they married one another… Ewwwyyyuuuckkk!

That man did not like her at all and he did not care about that wedding so I’m not quite understanding how we got here because you have to have a brain that functions and situational awareness

She is delusional 😂😂😂
That poor guy , she kept forcing herself into his life 😂😂😂

I'd LOVE to see his side... even with her telling her story, she seems delusional and NOT the victim. She convinced him to marry her... was miserable... treated him poorly.. skipped therapy.. and then is surprised when he was upset

This is so heavy …