Why Going Slow in Dating Gets You Into a Relationship Faster | Sabrina Zohar

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I have a strick "friends for a year minimum" policy before I will even consider a close relationship. Been burned enough times bc I jumped right into it and learned the hard way. Now I want to know the person first. But being single with four dogs is fun too.

Loved how naturally this was explained — feels honest, relatable, and not overcomplicated.

Omg this answered so many of my questions!! Thank you!!

You really hit the nail on the head with this video Sabrina! Wonderful analysis!

Very insightful! Thanks for sharing. I am the one who is always moving too fast. I recently(3 weeks ago) met a person who appears to be the oppositea dn/or more mature in relationships. We have been texting, primarily. I am learning patience... being taught patience🤭. However, I wonder of this person is simply taking it slow, when not responding to my texting (for a day or so) or if simply not so interested. I mean, they do eventually respond and then we exchange more frequently. But then, there will be another lull, which may come when I become a bit more assertive(too fast). Like recently, we had a great exchange the day prior... the next day I sent a message saying I missed them and wanted to see them. One day later, no response. I feel like I may have been a tab bit too excited in that expression and now this person is setting a boundary... or what feels like a boundary... but not responding. I mean we really know nothing about it each and I feel like I may have gone on the deep end!🥴 I would like to figure out how to navigate this kind of dynamic. How to find a healthy balance when I am genuinely exploring with someone I do not know. If you don't mind "pointing me in the right direction, I would appreciate it. No matter what, thanks for your videos 🙂.

I don’t understand how you can just sit there and tell people to go slow and you didn’t. That’s a total disconnect for me and it makes me not want to listen to anything else you say.

For me it's following the advice of don't text let her chase you. Don't that hurt in the long run. What to do if she tells you she wants to be more than friends, why you haven't kiss and at the same time don't wanna ruin it 🤯

I’ve never said this on a You tube video before but you’re so pretty and articulate

Sabrina, love your content and your speed!! I like listening to people who are dynamic, passionate, and authentic. The critical people can go elsewhere 👋

When I ask guys to go slow they disappear😂

😂 loved your video

Go slow 😂😂 but I did my guy on the first date ❤

So if you are starting a relationship out and both agreed to go slow, how many days is acceptable to go without texting or talking?

Thank you ❤this really helps

How can you deliver a talk on going slow at 90 miles an hour? Slow down so we can hear what you're saying

hi! i just started following youi! love the show and you, and your advice is first class...can i be a bit cheeky and suggest a little improvement? i always turn the playback speed down to 0.75 % as you can speak so fast ( i have the same problem) :-)). i think others would apreciate if you can slow down a bit? sorry to complain, but i dont want you to loose viewers as you are really good! all the best..im subscribing for more!

This is excellent. Exactly what I needed to hear and learn. Thank you! Would love more on this topic. I’m very much a person who rushes into love.

I'm dating this guy right now, met him through a friend, but we never actually dated. We just talk. We're both in college he's an athlete and I'm in a heavy math and science field but we're both in stem. So it's difficult to actually meet, we prioritize each other well being first like he would want me to sleep than meet him cause I havent slept well in a few days. That was the first time, and I initiated it, I'm now waiting if he actually wants to see me offline...if he doesn't ask me out next week, I'm gonna have to stop this nonsense hahahaha

Did someone speed this UP to give US a headache 😮

I’ll be honest. I content is valuable but the speech, pace and those sounds you made throughout to express the emotions are a bit stressing and anxious. I wish you went a little slower and easier with the topic.

We've known each other 7months at 1st we tried to stay away from each other because we strongly believe and Follow Jesus....anyhoo we have been having sex for 2 weeks.. it's wonderful...eventually we're gonna make a decision either to be boyfriend-girlfriend and date....and down the road as we date see, possibly marriage in a couple of years...that's our agreement....we are soooooooo yoked, compatible, we even realized we went to high school together we're like twins with a few differences..all good....we going fast real slow.....how can I separate out sex talk ....to boyfriend talk and when like 7months from now.....

It's obviously sensible to slowly develop a relationship but for me it's that dealing with ......are they not into it or is it a slow deeper approach chosen by them. I guess if it gets closer and deeper slowly and is developing that's the answer....though patience and trust can be tough to navigate.

The foul language here is over the top. I stopped listening.

If only all my experiences has been can't even get to a coffee just lots of text validations I don't need!!

She sure does ramble on doesn’t she? 😂

What educational background /experience do you have that qualifies you to give this relationship advice? I could be wrong but I thought you were in the fashion industry.

I love the content, Ilike her too, but it’s funny to hear someone talk about going slow so gast 😅

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I have never seen or known a healthy relationship in intimate couples

I’m single. I’ve been single for a while and now, working on myself. I’m starting to get to a point where I wanna open myself up to Dating but I’m extremely nervous because what I want, how I act, and then the fear of like oh my God I don’t want this. 😊suggestions, hint?

Needed this

wash your mouth out with soap

Why the potty mouth? It's really mot necessary you know.

I met someone I really like on a dating app, we've had two dates that went great! Should I keep dating other ment from the app while this develops? I don't want to, and wouldn't like it if he did that to me.

6:30 I couldn't agree more. In many cultures, especially in northern Europe, it's actually common to sleep with someone on the first meeting. It's purely cultural to attribute value and judgment about people who sleep together the first date.

Thank you! I needed this, feeling so much better and clearer ❤

I found this as I'm winding down for bed. I'll pick this up in the morning!